Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations. Don't over-analyze you relationships. Stop playing games. A growing relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness.
Source: In The Speaker's Electronic Reference Collection, AApex Software, 1994.
-- Leo Buscaglia, (Mar 31 1925-1998), US author, educator; Dr. Hug lectures on interpersonal relationships; wrote Living, Loving, Learning, 1982.