I tend to agree that celibacy for a time is worth considering, for sex is dirty if all it means is winning a man, conquering a woman, beating someone out of something, abusing each other's dignity in order to prove that I am a man, I am a woman.
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-- Toni Cade Bambara, (Mar 25 1939-1995), US writer; She wrote Gorilla, My Love, 1972.