I don't think you can look for love. All you can do is get yourself in a situation where you don't discourage something that may be rather nice.
Source: In Words of Wisdom, by Wm. Safire & Leonard Safire, 1989.
-- Linda Ronstadt, (Jul 15 1946-____), US singer; She has six platinum albums; starred on Broadway Pirates of Penzance, 1981.