Make sure you have someone in your life from whom you can get reflective feedback.
Source: In The University of Maryland symposium, 21 Jan 1988.
-- Warren Bennis, (Mar 8 1925-2014), US educator, futurologist, advisor, writer; He envisaged organisations as adhocracies - roughly the direct opposite of bureaucracies - freed from the shackles of hierarchy and meaningless paperwork.