If we divine a discrepancy between a man's words and his character, the whole impression of him becomes broken and painful; he revolts the imagination by his lack of unity, and even the good in him is hardly accepted.
Source: Human Nature and the Social Order, ch. 9 (1902).
-- Charles Horton Cooley, (Aug 17 1864-1929), US sociologist; He followed a socio-psychological approach to the understanding of society.